We’re free of him…

Posted June 17th, 2010 by castorgirl and filed in Abuse, Divorce, Domestic violence, Good stuff, Husband

This came in the mail today…

Dissolution of marriage
WE ARE FREE OF HIM!

Some don’t trust this piece of paper, they still expect him to come around the corner at any moment… But legally, we are no longer associated with him in any way (except for the Protection Order).

    16 Responses to “We’re free of him…”

    1. katie says:

      congratulations!!! :) i’m happy for you~ i hope that your troubles from this person are now completely in the past, and your fear of them can begin to lessen from now on.

      ~~~wishing you peace and serenity~~~

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      castorgirl Reply:

      Thanks Katie… I suspect there will be some fear for quite some time, but it will ease with time and healing :)

      Take care,
      CG

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    2. Paul says:

      Congratulations! I hope this means that parts of you feel freer and safer now that this is behind all of you. Good for you. You did what you had to back a few months ago, and now you can move on.

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      castorgirl Reply:

      Thanks Paul… I’m half expecting another round of hang up phone calls… so it will take at least a week or two before the tension eases a little.

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    3. tai0316 says:

      W-o-w! I’m so happy for you! My heart is with you right now wishing you happiness.

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      castorgirl Reply:

      Thank you :) Our heart dropped when we saw that the letter was from the courts… thinking he’d found some way to throw a spanner in the works… but we got this instead…

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    4. Good News!!!! :) Congrats!!!! :) <- = very big smile!

      I understand the fear, but you still have the protection order and can call the police immediately, if he dare to come in your near.

      This piece of paper is wonderful. Time to celebrate!
      Take care
      ((((CG)))))

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      castorgirl Reply:

      Thanks (((LSC))) We’re hoping not to hear about him ever again… but expecting he’ll do something stupid – just because he can’t ever let anything go, and must always control things…

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    5. Lisa says:

      YES!!!! Are you going to acknowledge it in any special way?

      May the unicorns of serenity bring you peace.

      Lisa

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      castorgirl Reply:

      A couple of new people started work last week, so we’re having a morning tea tomorrow… Yeah ok, I know that doesn’t sound exciting… I’m hoping to go to the ocean over the weekend, but it will depend on the weather.

      Take care,
      CG

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    6. Kerro says:

      Woohooo!!! Best news I’ve heard all day!!! *thumbs up man* :D

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      castorgirl Reply:

      Don’t destroy the happiness with the annoyance of *thumbs up man* :) You know how much we all love him… lol.

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    7. ones says:

      Congrats!!!
      Hope he settles and permanently stays away from phone calls etc SOON.
      Well done.
      Ones

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      castorgirl Reply:

      Thanks Ones… we do too…

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    8. grace says:

      thank goodness for that !!

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      castorgirl Reply:

      Thanks Grace… it’s been a long road to get to this point. We’re so glad it’s over.

      Take care,
      CG

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